We have many decisions in this life. We need to think what is best for our lives so we plan for the future.
It seems that we decide our future but we don't understand this life.
God controls what happens upon this earth. Many people think that they are doing their own will but the Lord is guiding what he wants to happen that day.
We have two choices. We can ask the Lord to guide us and be blessed or we can reject the guidance of the Lord and be cursed.