People like people that have good judgement. We want people that we can depend on doing good work.
If a person is faithful and good then that person will be blessed in every area of life.
But many people are not wise. They will do stupid things and caused their own problems.
The sins in their heart will cause destruction in their lives. The unholy life is not good.
If a person is in a relationship then most people want someone that is smart and faithful.
If a person is not faithful then the relationship will be broken.
Mankind is weak so we need the Holy Spirit to form our hearts.
We are sinners that are condemned to hell. We need to repent from sins and follow Jesus. We will receive a new desire and go to heaven.